What sells you? Like Goldilocks said to the three bears, “this is just right”

I have written in the past...what sustains you?  What fills you?  What inspires you?  Even what motivates you?  Today I ask:  What sells you?  What feature has you at "Hello"?  Is it a pretty face?  A great sense of humor?  The silence in a sunset?  A sleeping child?  Are you an adrenaline junkie?  A chocolate lover?  Or does a glass of wine call your name?  

Now…don’t answer with the righteous thing to say.  I want to hear what sells you or what you will be sold for, not to please another but to honor thyself.  What do you choose when no one is looking?  Can you disappoint another to warrant your needs and desires?  What is it?  I’m sure there are many...write them down.

Ask yourself this: how often are you playing in that sandbox?  Too much?  Not often enough?  Or just right?

Hmmm…Maybe Goldilocks had something after all?

and...Exhale-